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Ok i'm a 15 year old female for starters...just about 2and a half weeks ago my girlfriend and I broke up because my parents dont accept the fact that i am bisexual(more lesbian) although we had been together only 4 a month i developed strong and i do mean strong feelings for her to the point where right now i am still having problems dealing with us not being together. I still have times at night where i cry just because we aren't together and from missing talking and being with her. how do i deal with this? (link)
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Dealing with loss is very often about the time someone occupied in your life. You had parts of your life set aside, even after four months, and so where there was comfort, fun, and affection now there's just quiet.
It's understandably hard to deal with.
Best tip is to try to fill your time. Get a hobby or two, spend more time with non-romantic friends. Get closure if you need it, but try to spend the time you spent with her doing things for you. Occupying yourself so you don't have too much time to dwell buys you the time your head and heart need to begin the healing process and for you to move on.
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