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Okay, first of all I'm sixteen.
Here is my question: My best friend who is a girl(I'm a guy) asked me a couple of Saturdays ago if I would ever date her. I said yeah sure. Then the Monday of that week she kissed me, and I liked it. We hung out on Wednesday and Friday that week and we kept kissing, Wednesday was probably the most intimate kissing though. And I don't know how I feel about her and I don't think she likes me. But I can't stop thinking of her kiss. It's pissing me off also how she is acting to it. She is being kind of mean to me and telling me she doesn't care anymore and that makes me feel bad. I just want to sort out my feelings because now she thinks I like her, and I honestly don't know because I'm confused. Plus her friend whom I dislike knows I "like" her. And I think my best friend told him. ._.; And I don't want this stupid thing to go further, But I don't want to lose her friendship. Please help.
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This relationship has a limited time span. She likes you as more than a friend. If you do not date her, the friendship will eventually end.
If you find her sexually attractive, date her. Give it a shot. She's your best friend, you get along with her and enjoy being around her alot already. You would not describe kissing her as intimate unless it was some degree of intimate to you. You may not be as into her as she is to you, but that's a matter of timing, not an indicator that you're as far down this particular rabbit hole as you could possibly fall.
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That actually made me realize a lot... thanks o.o
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