hi everyone....
hay im sally, im 19. i love to give advice so ask me anything and i will answer as best i can!
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i am currently studying family and children studies certificate III at wollongong tafe and i love it. i love kids and one day i hope to become an early childhood teacher and work with 0-3 year old children. i'v been writing poetry since i was 13 and i hope that one day i can publish them in a book! that is one of my dreams.
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so keep those questions comming...please comment back, i'd like to know if iv helped or not thanxxx i have a blog! feel free to check it out: http://justsallyy.tumblr.com/
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I live with my grandparents. My friend and I have been friends since kindergarten. Well I promised her that I would go to summer school. But Then my grandpa died. My friend is like a part of the family my whole family knows her so it affected her too. Well when summer school came she asked me if I was going but I told her that I'm not going to summer school because then my grandma would be alone. She was like " But you promised!" Then she hung up. This was like a couple days ago. We just got over a fight too. Now every time I call she won't pick up and I leave messages but she still wont call. How do I get her to at least talk to me? (link)
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of corse she cares, everyone has a different way of dealing with death and this may be her way to deal with it. she is probably finding it hard and thought that you two going away to summer camp together was her get away, her chance to try and forget or get over what has happened. and to do this with someone who is feeling the same way as her. she is probably upset with you because she feels like she is going away to summer camp to deal with it on her own.
i think you have chosen the write thing by staying by your grandma, she is family and she needs you at a time like this. i know that your friend needs you too at a time like this and its always hard to chose the right thing to do but my advice is that family comes first.
its clear that they both need you but you really need to go and talk face to face with your friend and explain to her why you have chosen to stay with your grandma, she will understand and maybe you two can spend some quality time together before she goes away to summer camp and you guys can write and call each other while she is away.
stay strong.. hope this advice really helps you xx
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That is very good advice and I told her pretty much just what you said. Thank you!
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