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Anyway,I'm 16 years old and I'm in first year of high school.I like a lot of things,I don't hate anything in particular.I am a very nice person,with an attitude though,but I'm always there for people who need me.My friends tell me it's rare for someone to be so kind-hearted,so I'm pretty proud of the way I am. :D
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Okay so I want some opinion's on why guy's only respect certain girls? I'm in high school, 16 years old, and it seems that many girls do have boyfriends. I don't have one. I understand it's not the end of the world..but, it's annoying. Guy's always tell me I'm very pretty (not to sound full of myself), and I'm also smart and kind to everyone. I'm shy sometimes though. Anyway, I've had guys ask me out, but the one's who do..are the one's I don't have a thing for. I'll admit..for some reason, I always go for guy's who are pretty much "players". I don't know why..I just find them cute and stuff. So, recently I liked this guy..he acts totally different around me then he does everyone else though! He acts like a nice guy around me, but then he'll go on myspace or even at school and start calling girls sexy and hit on them and stuff. Why don't I get that? I mean, I know he's had a thing for me for a while..and I kinda like him too..obviously he finds me attractive to like me, you know? Well, I asked my friends, because this happens to me a lot,..and they said he acts different and more like a gentlemen around me because he respects me? I mean, of course having respect is wonderful..but does that HAVE to mean I don't get a boyfriend because I have there respect? Ughh. But anyway, this brings me to my main question..why do guys only respect certain girls? Anyone please give me advice. Thankyou :) (link)
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I'm a year younger than you and I used to have the same problem,but I "made a discovery" lol.Guys may think you are pretty and stuff,but they will always go for a girl who would easily have sex with them,who are easy to get...That's how all teen guys are.They respect you because you're not easy.As for being asked out by guys who you don't like-that always happens,but it will be better.You're the kind of girl a guy would want for a serious relationship,just because you don't give yourself easily,and keep that up.Guys rarely respect girls.I wouldn't take it as a bad thing,on the contrary,I'd be very pleased with myself for that.Oh and it doesn't have to mean you don't get a boyfriend.You're single because the right one hasn't come along yet.Whatever you do,stay as you are,and true love will always find you.
I hope I cleared it up for you.
Best wishes,
solariagirl94
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