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Hey, I'm Melody! I've been giving advice on and off since 2003. I'm a 23 year old military wife, expecting a baby boy in August, and working on my Bachelor's degree. :)
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hello againnnn :)
okay so i've been having dreams about my ex...alot of them were sex dreams and we've been hanging out alot like good friends and i slipped telling him i had sex dreams about him so he made me tell him the whole story haha. but these past few nights i've been having nightmares about him dying and getting hurt...i wake up in the middle of the night and i want to call/text him because i can't figure out if it really happened because they always take place at night and i go to bed in my dream, so i wake up and don't know if it happened...i really want to call him to make sure he's okay but i feel bad for waking him up..but i think if i call him at night and talk to him about it they might go away....i just feel bad about waking him up (when we were dating he said he doesn't care if i wake him up but idk now since we're not =/) should i? i think it might help but i don't want to ruin anything and i still love him alot.
thank you
-shay
I could kind of guess you still loved him by the way you talked. Why did the two of you break up to begin with? That's pretty important in deciding whether or not you should call him or not.
Basically you have to remember that what you are experiencing is JUST A DREAM. Everyone has nightmares, so try not to think about it. I personally wouldn't call him. There is a reason the two of you broke up, so unless you are in the process of getting back together, I wouldn't get involved.
EDIT: Like I have told you again, I can't answer your questions if you ask them in my feedback. I noticed that you are the girl that asked me the question about taking your boyfriend on vacation. So I already knew the situatuion. I have already told you what I think. You broke up in APRIL! If he still isn't with you, then that's a problem. Just ask him back out. If he says yes, then that's great. If he says no (or has some crazy excuse as to how things are better like they are) then he is leading you on, and he doesn't want to be with you. That simple.
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(Rating: 5) well we broke up in april because he said his feelings changed and he said we'll hang out alot this summer and if its meant to be, it'll be, and we've been hanging out alott and things have been going pretty good...what do you think?