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Hey, I'm Melody! I've been giving advice on and off since 2003. I'm a 23 year old military wife, expecting a baby boy in August, and working on my Bachelor's degree. :)
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18/f
I am going on five days late for my period, Ive been under a great amount of stress from dealing with fincial issues, not to mention his car breaking down and is unable to be repaired that caused me to have to move out of my fiances house and back in with my parents which of whom i just started to begin a relationship with after about a year of not speaking with them. I've been missing my fiance, and i have no car of my own to go and see him he is the only person who has ever expressed care/love towards me. Now we had sex just about every other day of this month because we were trying to get pregnant so i was not using my birth control my mother thought i was on and now with all of this stress he is unsure if he even wants a child which i feel is just him acting out because of all the stress going on, i dont even have enough money to buy a pregnancy test. All of these things are sending me into an emotional spiral, so my question to you is do you think stress is preventing me from having my monthly visit? I know you don't have all the answer but it would be nice just to get some feedback. Thank you in advance.
First of all, I think your fiance is in his right to question whether he wants a child right now. If you have no car, and your financial isssues are so bad that you cannot even afford a pregnancy test, how do you think you will be able to afford going through a pregnancy or ultimately having a baby? My questioning this has absolutely nothing to do with your age. I would say the same thing to a 30 year old if she were in your shoes. Think about that before you decide if a baby is what's right for you right now.
Depending on how long you have been off of your birth control, if your period is five days late there is a good chance you are pregnant. Stress can cause periods to come late, but it's best to get a pregnancy test. Ask your parents for the money. Then get a job. If you want a child and a husband, that's what you need most right now.
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(Rating: 5) thanks for your answer but i mean we have plans for our future already i suppose i should of put that in here he has a job lined up for trucking with one of the top of the line companies and i do have a job, we were just in a struggle because of his medical expenses.