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Q: ok so i wasnt on my period before all this happen ive had multiple little periods this whole month of may because i was on birthcontrol so a couple days ago i was like i dont want to be on it any more im done i hate HATE having my period and im not having it anymore so i got off it after a while month of being on it so it was two days i havnt been on it and i had sex with my boyfriend with a condom!!!! so ya im good. but hey right before he comes we hear a snap ya and then he cumed oh ya right after the snap now we are the people who go people who say condoms break are a load of bull we use a certain kind all the time but he was out so we used his friends where he got at a local clinic and there crap becuase we always like stretch condoms and they NEVER break like so when it broke we were like oh my god no it didnt we laughed actually i cant beleive it broke and i just JUST got off the birthcontrol now we tried getting the abortion pilll but mind you its a friday like 5 and planed parenthood was free but by the time we got there it was closed and they are closed on weekends so great we are trying to get the pill on monday hopingly. but any way later that night i started bleeding and it just ended now he might have knicked something but it could be because i just got off the pill idont know but i was just wondering if theres a chance of me still getting prego. any thing will help just answer!!!!!
Okay well, here’s the thing, you have to be on the pill for about 3 months for it to actually be COMPLETELY in your system, and then be off it 3 months for it to be COMPLETELY out of your system (depending on what type you were on), so if you were bleeding while taking the pill, that was normal and that was supposed to happen. If you stopped and then two days later had sex and what not like you already said, then there is always that possibility. But look, yes it CAN only take ONE time, BUT a guy can fully cum inside a girl and she still won't get pregnant. NOT that I am encouraging that by any means, but I'm just saying it just doesn’t ALWAYS happen when the guy does that.

You bleeding off and on is because you just shocked the heck out of your body by going on the pill then going off it, so, don't even worry about that.

As far as you being pregnant, I have no clue because EVERY person’s body is totally different. I would just chill for the weekend, go to Planned Parenthood during the week if it'll make you feel better I know sometimes it's hard to wait, and then see what happens from there, they can take a look if he did do anything inside that would make you bleed and they would know better than I would about the pill stuff that you were taking.

I apologize I can't help further but like I said, it could be absolutely nothing, or it could be something. But, even girls that are pregnant can still have their period like the first month, my friends sister did which is why she didn't even know she was pregnant till like 2 months after.

Anyway, sorry if I didn't give you the answer you were looking for, if you need anything else I can try to research stuff if I need be to help you more. But either way good luck!

thankkkk uu!!!

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