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Hey, I'm Melody! I've been giving advice on and off since 2003. I'm a 23 year old military wife, expecting a baby boy in August, and working on my Bachelor's degree. :)
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Advice
my boyfriend was really good playing college baseball last year. i met him this year and he hasnt been playing well. his team has been losing latly and hes not playing his best. i am being very very helpful. i wish him luck before a game, sending him cute pic messages about baseball, telling him he'll do better. anything i can think of a supportive gf can do. (we are in different states). today he had a bad game, he texted me and said hes turning his phone off adn doesnt want to talk to anyone for a while. he texted me back saying he talked to the coach and feels better. what do i do?
I was a baseball girlfriend in high school, and it is no fun at all. I colored pictures for him about baseball, was a very understanding girlfriend about all of his games and practices, and I wished him luck before every game too.
I only went to a few games because when I went he usually did bad for some reason. He would usually take it out on me, mainly because I was in his line of fire, so I just didn't go. I stayed supportive, and I will always support him in everything he does, but I wasn't about to sit at his game and take the chance of getting yelled at if him or his team did bad.
You should be lucky he was calm and told you he didn't feel like talking. He was probably in a really bad mood, and was afraid he would take it out on you. The best thing for you to do in those situations is tell him to call you when he feels like it, and not to worry about it if he doesn't want to talk that night. You just have to be understanding.
Being a baseball girlfriend is tough work, so you kind of just have to deal with it.
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(Rating: 5) i am very grateful he is understanding. i went to two of his games, they lost and he forgot about them and had an amazing day with me. so no doubt i am thankful! but thank you too!