Unfortently sweetie I don't really think there is a certain way to ask...

I've been cheated on many times too and there was once when I just broke it off with the guy and I told him I knew and he didn't deny it but it had already been, my choice was to break up with him.

Then the other time I DIDN'T jump the gun and I DID try to talk to the guy about it and he completely lied his face off! Even to this day (It's been two years since I've been broken up with this guy) he will not admit to cheating on me, but I caught him. That was the thing, I saw him with another girl and I've found out from many people that he did it more then I knew. But he still says he never did...

So, all guys are very different and none of us obviously have any idea what your bf is like so it's really hard to say...

I know that it really sucks and heart break hurts no matter how many times you go through it, but if he is cheating on you, it's better you get out of it as soon as you can. You deserve so much better than that. =)

But, I guess it's really up to you on this one. =) If you think it'd be best to talk to him, then my suggestion is, make sure you have enough time where both of you can be alone, and let him know you'd like to talk to him that you feel there maybe something going on and you don't want to jump to conclusions but you want to communicate with him about it and let him know why your feeling the way you do because of how he's acting, and give him examples of how he's acting different so he knows... If he says he isn't then it's your choice to trust/believe him or not. And if he does say he is cheating (which I hope he doesn't) then go from there and do what's best for you even if it hurts...

Good luck and I hope this helps a little and I hope it all works out for the best that he is not cheating and that things will get better. =)

thanks, and that really sucks about your bf. :( we all deserve better.

i think thats why the gays are reproducing more and more every day. :\

Hey! =) I really love my life and the things and people in it. I love fashion, make-up, going out, dancing, teaching dance, and being with my friends and family. I feel very blessed for the things I have. It took me a while to get to this point though and I know that growing up, and even people my age, you need advice about certain things every now and then. I've always had people give me advice about things and I've been able to use their advice through my own experience and mistakes and come up with some of my own things. And now I'm the one always helping my friends out. I always have new ideas that I love to share. And well, I can't promise I'll always be able to help or give you the answer you're looking for but, I'll definitely do my best. =)


Also, whether you ask me a question in my inbox or I answer one alone I normally ALWAYS add in my experiences because for me, I like to know when people can relate and aren't just guessing, it's easier when someone has actually been through it. And I'm not going to do any favors by lying, so I am ALWAYS going to be honest. But keep in mind just becasue of my experience and my honesty does not mean I am always right and I understand that. Feedback is appreciated to know what I can work on with certain answers, not demanded.

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