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Ok so I almost feel silly asking this and I never ask questions like this, but I just wanted to double check on something.

Today things got steamy with my guy and he was fingering me. At some points he got in a bit deep and it hurt a little. I'd let him know and he'd stop so there wasn't any problem there. But now I'm feeling a bit of discomfort and when I peed there was a slight hint of blood. Is it possible for a hymen to break just by fingering, if he got in deep enough? Or could it be that he just scratched me a little inside? [it feels like it could possibly be scratched -- which might also explain the bit of discomfort]


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Well, the first time that ever happened to me by a guy I was in a LOT of pain, so it might just be that your body isn't used to it like mine? I don't think he popped your cherry or anything(even thought I don't think you were asking that) but, it could just be a scratch or your body is just kind of like "whoa" if you've never done anything like that before... I think you'll be okay, but if it doesn't stop with in the next couple of days it may be a cut or something and definitely see a doctor if it gets too, too bad. But, I think the spotting will stop and the slight discomfort will stop with, like I said, the next couple of days. Only because that's what happen to me too. Hope I could help. =)

Thanks! That helped a lot. The pain is pretty much all gone already and there's no more spotting. I guess I was just freaking out, ha.

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