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So I was checkin out my cousins myspaces the other day...
Lets say Her name is Lauren.
And his is Ryan.

Well I hung out with Lauren about five days ago and she was talkin about these two guys she liked. But then today i read her "about me" on Myspace. And it was talkin about how she's done with guys cuz there all the same. And they all break her heart. So do you think this is just a phase for her? (shes 16 going on 17)

Then theres my cousin Ryan. I dont talk to him much. But i looked at his Myspace today and in his "orietation" space it said "Not Sure." So do you think that means theres a chance of him being gay? (hes 13)

Well Im just curious about whats up with them... Please and thank you.

love rachel

About Lauren: Yeah, it's a phase. I definitely don't think she means that she is a lesbian- she probably just wants to stay single for a while. There's nothing wrong with that, in my opinion.

About Ryan: That could mean a couple of different things, and I want you to consider all of them. Firstly, he could be gay or bisexual, but since he's 13 he could just be in a phase where he's not sure. Second, he could just not know what orientation means (which sounds stupid, but if someone had asked me what my orientation was when I was 13, I would have been confused). So maybe he put "not sure" because he literally wasn't sure what it meant. Or, maybe he hasn't gotten around to putting gay or straight. Or, maybe that's the default that myspace puts on there and he hasn't changed it to whatever he is yet. There may be a chance of him being gay, but since he's 13, it's probably just a phase.

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