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Hey! Im f/13

Okay so my friend Alex has been my friend for years, but we've never really gotten close. we've always been called brother and sister because we look so alike, and whenever somebody asks he says "No! Never! That would suck!". And then one day walking home from school one of his friends were like "whose that? girlfriend?" and Im also walking with a friend and so I start blushing, but Alex doesnt decline the fact, just smiles. So one night, he texts me and asks if I want to come play basketball so I go and hang out for a bit, and it might've been just me but I thought he was flirting.. Well the next day he texts me asking if I like him, so I say "maybe" just to see what he said back. He texts back saying the same thing, and ever since he has acted really weird around me. I didn't like him that way when this all started but i think I am starting to. My friends always tease me about liking him & being teased about that is embarrassing so I blush and that really doesnt help. Idk what is happening, but I dont think Im ready for a BF. Id be all nervous around him and knowing him, he would too. I dont know what Im asking, but if you know what's going on with him..

i'm guessing he probably likes you too. most guys don't ask a girl if she likes him unless they like her too. if you feel like you're not ready for a boyfriend yet.. just continue being friends with him and see where that goes. that's probably a good choice for now because if you guys go out and then break up it might ruin your friendship. you aren't ready for that yet when you're only 13.

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