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well to start off my name is samantha b and my x-boo dana is dating 1 of my friends and i'm ok with that kinda, but they have been going out for the past four months and he wants to cheat on her with me but i don't know what i'm going to do, we have already made out once, and we have walked together like to class and every thing, but our hint word for cheating or us wanting to see each other agin is "do u want to play the game" and its like that on and off. but the hole reason why hes doing this is b/c shes always saying "i'm going to brake up with u and date some one else" i resently tolled him that (the guy that i'm trying to get with)him and amanda were talking about going out and having sex with each other and he didn't like that to much,and thats one of the other reasons why he wants to do this, but what should i do, do it and say fuck you to my friend or tell my friend that me and him are doing this behind her back? and i really love him and want to be with him and she doesn't give a flying fish about him, so what should i do please help me out i really need to know what i should do?


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Well Samantha, it seems as if his girlfriend and him should not even be together. Instead of telling her that her boyfriend and you are having an affair, maybe you should talk to him about braking up with her. I mean if she has been threatning to brake up with him, then they should not be together. Evidently he does not want to be with her either, so ask him why doesn't he just cut the string between him and her. That way you and him can have the relationship you two are so itching to have without actually doing anything wrong. You will be able to be with him without having to think about the harm you might be doing to your friend. Just talk to him tell him how you feel and encourage him to brake up with her and go out with you. I don't know exactly how close you and your friend, but I would not risk the friendship with her over a boy. However, if she brakes the friendship with you because you went out with him after he brakes up with her, then she was not worth it anyway. I hope everything works out, just remember that he should brake up with her, before you go on with your relationship with him. This way you are not the one who is doing anything wrong and no one can blame you. It will help you stay out of a lot of drama if he does this so just talk to him and see what he thinks. Then make your decision.


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thank u alot but the thing is is that she is a whore and a liyer she lied 2 him about wanting another guy and at the bigging of there relationship she tolled me that i couldn't talk to him be his friend or anything we just resantly started talking again.




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