I am a student and a cheerleader. I am currently studying psychology and i have learned a lot. I have been through a lot in my life- bad parents, alcoholics, druggies, rape, heart break,eating disorders, etc.- and i have gotten throught all of it. I want other people to get through it as well so if you need help, i would like to give advice. And you must know that i am a dedicated christian.
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Age: 16
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my boyfriend & i have been together now for about 5 months.
i am his first serious relationship since his last ex. & they dated for 20 months. they lost their virginities to eachother & everything.
just here recently, has made a year since they broke up. & she was the one who broke up with him, because he cheated on her.
my boyfriend & i made plans to go to a club one night & she was there. she kept giving me awful looks & staring at us. i've seen her before & she's never really acted that way to me.
then one day she sends me a message on myspace trying to say that i was talking bad about her to her friends & telling them that they couldn't be around her.
she & i get in a big argument & my boyfriend basically tells me to leave her alone.
my boyfriend & i go to different schools, but his ex & him go to the same school. & he told me that she came up & was talking to him really bad about me & that she apologized to him & everything. & he accepted her apology.
i'm not sure what i'm asking but i need your opinions on this situation. i've never started anything with this girl & i blocked her from my myspace & everything & i don't understand why she is always trying to talk to my boyfriend.
i mean, is she jealous? because she has a blog on her myspace that is specifically aimed at how bad she hates my boyfriend because he cheated on her, but i just don't understand. (link)
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she obviously loved him if she lost his virginity to him...and that kinda makes u get attached. she probably tried to get over him and then as soon as she saw him with another girl, all of those feelings came back and she realized that she wanted to be that girl. Be careful with this guy because we never really get over our first loves and he may go back to her. To get better with her, talk to her. Tell her how this makes you feel and in a nice way ask her what her problem is.
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thanks. but you have me a bit worried now thinking he may want her back :(
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