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I am Samantha.
I am a friend.
I am a lover.

I like books and the weekend. I like summer and music and flowers. I don't like school or being cold. I don't like rejection or mood swings or bad hair days.
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Gender: Female
Location: D-town
Occupation: Student/Cashier
Age: 16
Member Since: February 3, 2008
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Last Update: April 28, 2009
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Okay, Well your advice is 100 percent relevant and good advice, BUT i just tried to talk to her actually today, and all she does is throw it in my face that OH YOU USED TO DO IT and stuff, and its not like i ask her to stop, because i dont mind that she smokes, because i know that it is fun, i am no trying to tell her what to do, or stop i just rearly think that everyday is a little unneccesary exspecially when her sister was like that and really messed up her life, and its like when you have proof right in fron of your eyes why wont you just you know ease up? i dont know i may have been thinkin that next year, i should try and meet new freinds like me, i love my freinds, but i guess i have changed alot, and i shouldnt try and change them, and maybe just find new freinds .. with more in common? i guess it would just suck to lose a best friend (link)
You don't have to lose her, necessarily. But looking for new friends is always a good option, whether you need them or not. When you and her hang out, try to find things to do that can't involve smoking and maybe she can see how life can be sweeter when you're not high. Sorry if I didn't help, it's a tough subject. Good luck, though!


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thank you, & you did help!




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