I am a student and a cheerleader. I am currently studying psychology and i have learned a lot. I have been through a lot in my life- bad parents, alcoholics, druggies, rape, heart break,eating disorders, etc.- and i have gotten throught all of it. I want other people to get through it as well so if you need help, i would like to give advice. And you must know that i am a dedicated christian.
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Okay. I'm sure this question is on here a million times over, and i know the main remedy is to "be yourself", but i need an answer a little bit deeper than that.
I'm not skinny. I'm not horribly fat. I am chubby, but i know i'm not ugly. (i'm not trying to be conceited at all.) my thing is, i have confidence in myself. And though i am self-conscious about my weight, i'm working on that with all i've got. Here's the problem; i'm a junior in high school, and i still don't know how to act around guys. yeah the main problem is my self-consciousness, but now that i'm past that a little, i don't know how to initiate conversation with guys i'm interested in. there are a ton of guys i'd like to get to know, but i have no idea how to go about it.
saying Hey! randomly is a bit bold for me, though my personality is loud. and i always am myself with my friends and in meeting people; but around guys i'm interested in... i clam up. and if i don't know them, i can never initiate anything. because i'm horribly shy when it comes to that.
so if anybody has any advice on...ice breakers i guess? i'd love to hear them all. :)
thanks in advance. (link)
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You should first do something that drastically makes you look different so the boys notice, like completely dying your hair or get a new outfit or something. It feels good, will make you look great, and definitely will make you more confident. Then ask your friends to help you go up and talk to the boy. Go in a group but make sure that you stand out. I constantly am happy and smiling and people like being around that so you could try that too! Good luck! =D
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