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I think i talked to you about this boy that i thought liked me and i had something for him too but he had a gf....well just incase you dont remember, he was touching my leg and hitting me with his shoulder and teasing me...But after that he wont hardly talk to me...like at all...and he was looking at car parts and i said whatcha doing and he said looking up car parts..and like five minutes later i said so whatcha doing and he said something...(i was bored) but like if i see him in the hallway then he will look at me a lot, and like in class he will look at me a lot...like for five minutes, and yesterday he ran out of the classroom and real fast and i was walking down the hallway and he was talking to a friend and he started to look at me and talk to his friend at the same time. But like i am so frustrated because i dont know what to do!! i was gonna ask for his number but i havent found the right time...Why isnt he talking to me?? Does he maybe think that i dont like him or something..what did i do?? i get these vibes that he has something for me but he just isnt talking like he did that day....help!!

Hey there. This might sound really, really dumb, but tell one of his close friends that you like him. I'm not even kidding. Because then they will probably tell him. Most of the time, when you know that somebody likes you, you start to like them back. I know it sounds weird, but when I find out that someone likes me, I kind of start to like him too. So if you let him know (or give him a note or something) then that will DEFINITELY get something going. Or, even if you just give him a note with your number that says "call me sometime :)" or something, then if he calls you then you know that there's something there. It would be really great for you to talk to your friends that know him about it, because they can give you a better perspective of if he really likes you. It really sounds like he's just playing "hard to get" by ignoring you or whatever... which is dumb. Since you said that he looked at you and talked to his friend at the same time, that makes me think that he likes you and is trying to figure out what to do about it. Is he a shy guy? That may have something to do with it too. It's never wrong for the girl to make the first move, so if you get a chance to, just say, "Hey, I think we should hang out sometime" or whatever and then if he's cool with it get his number. It doesn't necessarily have to be a date, but it's cool if it turns into one :) Good luck!

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