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Q: 14/f
two guys.
one is my best friend and the other is my other friend. they dont know eachother. both of them are bi. my bestfriend told me he didnt like me a few months back. since then, i stopped trying to make him like me because if he doenst he doesnt. but im gonna see him this week and since we havent seen eachother in a while maybe something will change.
my other friend is great. he flirts with me a lot and stuff but i cant tell if its just for fun or if it means anything. my bestfriend always flirts with me too but apprently he never liked me as more than a friend.
so im not sure what to do at this point because i like them both and dont know how either feels. and im not a player so i wont go for both at once. thanx =]

you should hangout with them both and if they start flirting with you just be like "hmm you seem kinda flirty today" and just see the reaction on their face of both guys and then you can get into that topic or you can just tell by the expression on their face .. the more confidence you come out with it the less it will seem like a big deal ;; trust me. and guys dig confidence

hope i helped a little bit anyway =D

Rating: 5

oh thanx thats a really good idea =]

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