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Q: Well you see me and my cousin are pretty close. and I love being around him, he makes me laugh and we goof around all the time. It's non stop fun with him and I cant get enough. This past year I have been trying to fight off the fact that I might even have a crush on him. I know that it's wrong but I just can't resist. I would really appriciate it if you would give me your advice on what is going on. Thank you.
People are probably going to think I'm crazy for saying this, but that's perfectly normal.

Not that I'm encouraging it to go any further, because THAT is not normal. It's more common than you think for "crushes" to develop from on relative to another.

But you need to stop and think about this.

Would you ever think of a brother the way you think of your cousin?

I doubt it..

It seems to me that you have a great friendship with your cousin, and that bond will generally lead to a crush... But you need to remind yourself that it is a bond of FRIENDSHIP, nothing more.

thanks.

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