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Member Since: September 13, 2007
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Last Update: September 13, 2007
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ok i know this is kinda Long but pLease keep reading .... so me and my boyfriend have been dating 6 months and its been amazing , yea theres beeen fights here and there ; but one thing i need heLp on is my anger ''/ it gets the best of me and soo not in a good way . Like when i get mad at him he trys to make it better but i just push him away , Like when were together adn mad im just Like dont touch me , get off me , or just shut up . & when were not together and were taLkin on the phone iLL just Like ignore his caLLs , just be Like yea yea watever & hang up & AFTER the fact i feeL bad . thats one thing about me , when im mad i just dont give a fuck at the time . then when i caLm down its aLL straight - but i know he'LL get tired of it sooner or LAter & i dont want that to happen . it hurts him so bad & iv tryed everything , so heLp pLease (link)
okay you don't have an anger issue, its called pride and your pride can be a bad thing. pride can be a good thing. if it was anger it would not bother you so much when you come down off your pride. anger is uncontrolled but pride can be. you took the first step and asked for help and that is great. first of all boys can always be a hassel. they always will be we just have to learn how to deal with them. we feel sad if they are not there but happy when we get a break from them but know that they will be there if we want them. they are the same way. take some time and cool off and take time to miss each other. you are suffering burn out. you need your space. try writing text messages or notes and talk to him about your feelings without him directly in your face or even around to speak in return. wait and see what he says back to you. that's is the best part and try to stay positive. if you need any more questions answered just ask or write back. talk to you soon


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this aLL reaLLy made sence , about my pride then .... i HATE admittingg im wrong & saying sorry . i know thats bad but im trynna work on it




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