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There are days I wish I never meet her, and I wish I never help her from her issues.
But for some reason I was lead to this path to meet her and help her, but why!?
I am in love with my best friend that I know for 8 years. And I am a woman who found out that I am bisexual. I had past relationships with men but they never work out and I never got over her. It’s hard when I try to deny my feeling of her when she is a touchy close person to me. She leans on me and teases too. I know friends do that but she can go too far on being close. She is still very close to me after I told her ho w I felt about her. She was shocked about it and she told me she is fine with it and will still be my friend no matter how I feel in my heart. She doesn’t feel the same way about me and she not ready for a relationship and she isn’t sure what gender she likes her self. I ask her why that is and she said she doesn’t feel any towards to men.
When I try to get over her I just can’t! I cry because I can’t get over her. What should I do?
I am moving to Hawaii with my family and my plan was to never talk to her no more so I can get over her. But she is my best friend and I don’t want to break her heart. What should I do if I see her with someone elus? I won’t handle it well I know it I just wish I can find out what to do.
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okay, this isn't an area i'm very strong in, but i'll try.

first of all, you should never deny your feelings.
if anything embrace them.

second of all, you should get over her, but that takes time.
just go with the flow.

third of all, you shouldn't ignore her, 'cause that will only make you want to see her more.
let her know your moving.

but when you do move, hopefully you'll get over her faster because of being miles away with lots of new people.

if you see her with someone else, try being happy for her.
'cause even though you're not the one with her, she's probably happy.
they say true love is when no matter what you just want the other person to be happy, no matter where they are or who they're with.

and when you need to, cry it out.
crying is good for you.

hope i helped. :]


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yeah i been crying. and its hurtting my face. thanx u 4 ur advice.




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