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Hey, our names are Steph and Jess.
Were two disfunctional best friends
We are interested in talking with others and helping with their problems considering we've been through a lot. We're new to this but feel free to ask us anything and we'll give you the best advice possible. We specialize in stress, friend problems, boy confusions, and we will talk about anything else you like also like sex concerns drugs and alcohol, pretty much everything!

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Location: new york
Age: 16
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The boy I talk to only came over my house once and we only just talk on the phone. A few things that he do that I don't like is when he see me he just say hi or not and that would be it for the whole day until he calls me after school. But another thing is that all his friends call me his name when they see me and they know we talk and everybody in school know. But why is it that he don't act like he want to be around when all his friends stop and talk to me and always hang around me. Everynight when we talk he acts like he cares so much and like I never ask him to come over or to go out. I hate when it seems like he just want to hang out with his friends out of school, just ride dirt bikes and whatever else he be doing. When I asked him why he treat me this way he said, "That's because I really like you". I don't understand why he treats me this way like I'm not even there but just walking right by me. But I realized he will want to be around and want to talk to me when all his friends around. So what why do he act this way and what should I do?
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It shows that he just really likes you.. some guys do that when they like a girl because they are either shy in person, or they just dont want their friends really knowing how much they like you. I think y ou should just keep talking to him and eventually he will become more comftorable talking to you in person around his friends and he wont care as much, and dont worry if you go out with him he will make time to hang out with you alone and even with his friends because trust me he will want to be with you if he likes you as much as he seems to. A lot of guys just dont want their friends seeing their sensitive side to them thats why on the phone he shows how much he cares about you becuase he doesnt have to hide anything but around his friends he hides it because he jsut wants to look tough . Dont worry though he wil grow out of this give him time


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