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=/ sorry this tured out loner then i thought it would be.
Me and my [ex]bestfriend have known eachother for a 2 years now. A few months ago she started lieing alot and about things and i caught her in many of them. I hate fighting so i just let it go. On top of that she relys on all her boyfriend. She goes from one guy to the next to the next hanging out with them everyday never carring about me or anyone else. I was so agravated with her i would come home everyday and complain ahout how much i dont like her and all these things. So i relized then why be here friendd[even if that kinda harsh]. Cause im kinda being a bad friend to talking about her behind her back. So i stopped talking to her for a while. about 2 weeks she called me and we kinda had a talk and i basically told her what was happening and she asked if she changed then could we be friends still. I said maybe but i didnt want her to change just for me and i didnt think she would[she didnt]. Well now she is still all buddy budyy with me but i still dont like her. What should i do. I started writing a note to her to tell her about what i was thinking and what was happeneing cause she clearly didnt undterstand but is that stupid to do? Should i call her and tell her? or should i do something else. (link)
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you came to the right place. i just hope i can help you.
first of all, i would call her again to talk to her and tell her that i still feel the same because she didn't change. but i would also include the fact that i don't want her to change on account of me.
second of all, i'd just be a friendly stranger to her. which means, not talking to her more than neccesary and not creating opportunity for any conversation that would bring out what you dislike about her. [ex. more lies]
to me it looks kinda like she doesn't need you. and the way she acts you really don't need her.
i really hope i helped.
please give me feedback?
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