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I'm in 3 year University, studying Business. I have been in a 2 year relationship with a guy I love very much. I'm very open and I do not get embarassed. Feel free to ask me anything under the sun!
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ok well i was going out with my ex boyfriend for 7 weeks when i found out he was going around the town saying that he was just messing me about.so i decided i was going to break up with him.i was going to ring him to ask him could we meet up but i couldnt bare to see him after saying all kind of stuff about me.i really didnt want to believe that he said really mean stuff about me because he had said he loved me so many times.and i had fallen in love with him.so i decided i would just send him a text message saying that i was breaking up with him because of all the stuff he said about my friends and i.the next day i came home from school and he was ringing me well i thought it was him.it was actually his mother ringing me from his phone.she was really mean to me on the phone.i told her that he called me a slut and other stuff like that.and she just said well you must have been saying stuff about him first.but i wasnt i was in love with him and wouldnt say anything bad about a lad that i was in love with.my older sister came home the next day saying thet his mother had spread bad romours about me around the town.now all the teachers hate me.
then this lad asked me out a few days later and i said that i had just broke up with some one and he said he has been wanting to ask me out for months but i was going out my ex-bf.i asked him did he hear the stuff my ex-bf was saying about me and he said yea i heard that ye had broke up.so i told him that my ex-bf called me a slut.he went mad he started saying stuff like god help him at football training tonight and he said your the kindest and sexyest girl that lives in this town.
the next day i rang him and he said my ex-bf wont be going around saying stuff about me ever again.i said i would go out with him and he was delighted and kept compliminting me all night it was so sweet.were getting on really well and just to let ye know he is the finest lad that lives in my town.
im just afraid about next year because im starting a new school where my older sister goes and im afraid i will be called a slut and stuff because of what my ex-bf and his mother were saying about me.
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It sounds like your ex is a huge jerk, and was never worth your time in the first place. I know its hard to hear, especially since you say you were in love with him, but its the truth. Once you realise that he and his mom are jerks, you will realise that none of that matters. What matters is you have a great boyfriend now that appreciates you and treats you right. Ignore what others are saying - I know its hard, but if you know that you arent a slut or any of those things they were saying, then thats all that matters. Be confident and understand that they are rumers, and they will be gone in a week. Everyone will forget about it. If they really knew you, they would know you arent the slut, your ex boyfriend is. Just live in the moment, with your new lad. Enjoy life and dont let others get you down, especially if you know it isnt true.
Hold your head up!!
Good luck
p.s. im guessing you are from england?.. Sweet accent.
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no im not from england im from ireland.people that i meet and talk to first think im english but im 100% irish.thanks for the advice
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