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I know what foreplay is and all, I'm not immature or anything...but I dont understand the concept of it. It's supposed to get a guy going, and have him last longer during sex...but how long do you have to wait after fooling around before having sex? I know guys have that peroid after orgasming that they have to wait until they can again...does that have anything to do with it? And will it help at all if you finger or do oral on the girl as well? (link)
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For the guy, if you want him to last longer during sex, make him cum during foreplay, and then get him to finger you/eat you out(im assuming you are a girl? maybe not, its hard to tell, but you catch my drift) and warm you up so that when do you start having sex when hes ready, you will be closer to orgasm/climax... becuase it generally takes a girl longer to cum than a guy.
As for how much time it takes, just ask him, or see when his dick gets hard again - that will be a good way to tell if he is ready to go again. Either way, after he cums the first time, get him to fool around with you until hes ready again, and you will be more than ready.
Hope this helped!
What TINA DUH said, if you want him to cum really soon after starting to have sex, then dont make him cum during foreplay. But why would you want him to cum faster? Thats ridiculous. You want to make it last longer, so yes, make him cum during foreplay.. (especially if he cums sooner than you both want him to), and then like I said, give him the time he needs and he will last a lot longer.
Experiment with it.
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yeah, i am a girl. it helped a lot, we werent so sure on some of this stuff...even if we thought we knew everything about it. thanks!
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