E-mail: roxy129@msn.com
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Last Update: December 21, 2013
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So.."Tom" and I were going out for a little over two years. It's been on again, off again. He comes from a "tough" family, as do I, but in completely different ways. His mom's always swearing at him, and lowering him, as if it's no big deal. Now he's taken that attitude toward everyone; including me. I can't stand it, but I understand that it's not necessarily his fault. I DO love him, no matter what, but I don't think he feels the same way. Everyone says I can do better, but it's him I want to be with, and he "says he wants to be with me too"..This time, we've broken up though (I broke up with him)- and it hasn't just stayed a few days, it's been about a month and a half! Anyways, about jr.prom, I said I realllly wanted to go with him, but he wont go, because he says "hes gonna hate the music, not wanna dance, and be completely bored". I don't understand why he won't just go with me, for one night, to make me happy. I've tried everything to convince him to go; saying all my friends were going so I really wanted to be apart of it, and that i only get ONE jr. prom, etc..he said he would take me next year (for sr. prom)-he also said that both proms were going to be exactly the same- but I talked to older people, and they all said "i should go, because I only get one JR PROM"...Anwyays, other people want me to go with them, but I know Tom would be FURIOUS,and not talk to me for a LONGG time,even though he won't go with me.. I'm afraid of not going and missing all the fun prom stuff, (even though I COULD just go next year), to stay friends/ prolly go out with Tom again in the future, or I could just go with another guy, and call it a night!
HELP!
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i have the same problem my boyfriend wont go with me either. But anyway i think you should go with someone else if he wont go with you. My boyfriend told me i can go with someone else. Its your junior prom enjoy yourself its your only jr.prom. Im sure you love him and dont want him to be furious. If he would be mad he isnt worth it anyway. He should trust you and want you to have a good time. hope i helpedd
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Wow, im surprised someone else has the same problem! Thats comforting (cept sad)... yea, i think i have decided, if i go.. im going to go with someone else..
i dont think were getting back together, after how things went today :-/
but yea, thanks
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