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Q: 1/14 okay so my birthday is in august im want to have a kick ass house party. (yes it will be boy girl... duh. :))

lets just say people expect a lot out of my parties, so it cant be lame. but i suuuck at planning anything.

also, i really dont want to spend a fortune on this party. i can spend some, but dont say anything like "GET AKON TO PREFORM!" cause i dont have that kind of budget. (:

i would really appreciate any or all of these questions answered. thank you soo much in advance.

(im okay with music, so dont worry about that.

-any good party ideas about
+food
+games
+other things to do
+entertainment
+unique invitations
+formal informal
+gift bags? if so with what in them?
+about how many people total?
(big house and pretty big back yard! + pool
and like, little fort/tree house thing)
+dancing or no?
+movie or is that boring?
+my room - off limits?
+how long
+what time-ish?
+invite acquaintances or just good friends?
+even number of guys an girls or does it
matter?
+slow songs or no?

ETC ETC ETC

ANYTHING YOU LIKE ABOUT A PARTY, LET ME KNOW!

it would be good to get some info kinda quick just so i can start planning now.

thank you sooo mcuh you guys. im sure this will help a lot.

xoxo

I don't have ideas for everything sorry, but heres what I do have-

For food, you can have chips, crackers, sodas, pretzels, candy, pizza, etc.

Games you can do 7 minutes in heaven, spin the bottle

As for entertainment, you can have the TV on, or have a movie playing, and you mentioned swimming so people could swim.

You should probably make it informal.

I'm not sure about gift bags, but if you want you could invite everyone in your grade since its a big house.

Definatly have dancing!

Have a movie on, but dont make everyone watch it unless they want too. After a movie is over put another one in.

Yes your room and parents/sibs rooms should be off limits since those are personal. UNLESS you allow someone in there yourself, then no one should go in.

Probably about 4 hours is an average party length unless its a sleepover. The time? I think like 6-10, or 5-9.

Invite anyone you are friends with and aquaintences! If you want to have more friends, inviting them to your party might bring them closer :)

Probably an even amount of guys and girls could work, but they don't have to be perfectly even (ex 10 less guys than girls)

And you dont really need slow songs unless you want to. It's not the best advice and I tried to answer as much as I could. Hopefully someone else can give the rest of the info and add onto mine. :) Hope I helped

Rating: 4

thank youssss. (:

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my name is Jay and I'm only 13 years old but I've been through a lot. I might not give the best advice but I still try. I don't sugarcoat my answers but I'm not mean. you can drop a question in my inbox any time you'd like, and I'd be more than happy to answer because I love to give advice and I try my best to help people.

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