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Well, I love to give advice anonymously, but I have given alot of advice so I figure what the heck. My name is Ben, but alot of my freinds call me Badger(Badger is preferred), and I am a proud single american. I had started giving my freinds personal advice since I was 7 years old and now my freinds reffer me by two things:
1.Advice
2.Comedy
I hope you enjoy my advice!

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hii there [=. I`m not sure if you`ve ever been in a situation like this, but I like this kid, and a couple of my friends tell me to play "hard-to-get." Do you think this is a bad idea, considering he might think I`m pushing him away, or is it good because there`s a chance he may "want me more" thanks

Hi. I truly have never been in this situation before but I will see what I can do. Concider the amount of relationships "your freind", who is telling you to play hard to get, and see if that advice has worked for them in any relationships. Now, if he/she hasn't had any relationships at all or very limited ones, that sorta tells you to go with your own advice and not to play "hard-to-get". If your freind has had a couple more of relationships than you, listning to them might accually be helpful. Also, has he shown any signs he likes you back? If not, playing hard to get would be pointless. What I reccemend to do is to get to know more about this kid in freind-to-freind cassual conversations first. Once you get to know him better, he might not be the guy/girl of your dreams. That would be my first step. Now it might be helpful to know if you are a guy or a girl for my second step, but lemme see what I can do using the current info I have. Second, don't talk to him so much he thinks you might be stalking him. After he has gotten to know you, what I would do is go strait for it. Love can break a heart, but your heart will mend over time. Let me know how it goes! =]
-AskBadger

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(Rating: 5) thanks! I think i`ll play it safe and not do it, you made some really good points there. I`ll take your advice ;]
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