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Member Since: February 13, 2006
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Last Update: January 21, 2010
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Ok, so i moved from California to Ohio this summer, mid July, and i didnt really meet anyone during the summer because there wernt really any oppotunities. So i thought ok i will make friends when school starts, well i started wednesday. No one has even attempted to talk to me there, not even say hi. So when lunch comes around i sit at an empty table and eat by myself. I feel like such a loner. At my old school i had soooo many friends. What am i doing wrong? People tell be just be friendly, well of course im friendly but whenever i try to talk to people i feel out of place, like they are thinking, "Who is this weird new girl?" Im tired of not having anyone to talk to or hang out with, Ive cried all my tears and I just want to know, Is Something Wrong With Me!? Thanks for reading. (link)
Ok this is how you weed your way into people's lives. Scope out your classes for a girl (start with same gender first) who seems nice and has a good group of friends and who seems smart. During class, ask find out something she likes. One day, ask her a question about something and casually bring up something you know she would want to talk about. If she seems friendly enough be like "Um...I know this sounds rude, but Im new, do you mind if I join you at lunch sometime?" I doubt she'll say no and even if it's just a pity yes, during lunch you could turn it into a yay-yes

hope I helped



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thanks thats what i needed, a strategy to find someone.




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