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hey im struggling with thte same thign too right now. heres what ive been doing recentally which workes and also makes me very happy and more confident with myself:
1)know you are beautiful, every guy wants you, but the reason y thye r not tlaking to you is because you r too intimidating, but u shoudl know if you aproach them they will be more than pleased to talk to you. alth there is a handful of just plain stupid guys who will be asses to you who r probably gay. so love yourself first, then people will love you too
2) in a few years no one will remember that you were the girl who tried to say hi to that hot guy in lunch adn while doing to tripped over a seat and spilt her lunch all over the cafeteria (and that woudl be the worst thign that can happen to you if you try to say hi to someone). making friends is key, even if its just oneline (which i find easier to do) because friends make u feel great about yourself.
3) surround yourself with fun outgoing happy people because they will make you feel like you are just as worthey as they are.
4) picture all thoes outgoing happy girls who get all the guys, pretend you them, i know it souinds crazy and it might sound liek you r trying to be someone your not, but it works because you are pushing yuourself to be more outgoing so you attract more guys who boost your self esteem
5)act in a whim. just do things that come to mind. act on instinct, through yourself out there on the limb adn hope it works
i hope i could help. its all in your head, remember that! (ps sry it was so long)
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