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you answered my question about suicidel thoughts and said that because i'm 18 i do't have a goal in life and sujested to even ask my father if he had any idea what he is going to do in life when he was 18. my father knew exactly what he going to od in life he lived onhis own sins he was 16 and he is pushing me to get a clue on what i wan't to do. what should I do? (link)
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Ah, okay. Your feelings on life right now could have been put on by your father. Don't worry about what he wants you to do.
Where you want to go, and what you want to do in life is a massive question that I would say can't quite be answered for a long time.
My father had no idea, plenty of people I have talked to had no idea, either. Don't worry about a goal in life, you're really young. First, make it your goal to stay alive and don't commit any suicide here.
Looking may not be key in finding the answer. Just hang out, and try to get into college first. You can't do anything career wise without college. Think about certain things you really enjoy doing and look up on them to see if there is a career related in that field.
Also, don't be so hard on yourself. For a corny comparison I will give you this.
Girls always say they are 'too fat' or they 'hate [insert physical feature here] soo much they want to change it'
Now usually when a girl tells you this you look at them and go "WHAT? You have to be crazy to think that!"
Everyone is always too hard on themselves. Just realise everyone else thinks different of you and you have plenty to live for.
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