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You need advice???ASK ME!!!!I am Emily and i love helping others...I want to see happy people around me and people who smile!That's why i try to help you!It is said that i give good advice,what do you think????
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hey u answered my question earlier and i liked your advice but i wanted to get some more on the topic. this is what i wrote before:
15/f. i like this guy, i told him i like him, but all he said was thanks for being honest. Later on i asked why he wasnt honest to me, in telling me that he didnt like me, and he said i never said that, i cant tell you an answer because i dont know how i feel yet and it takes me awhile to know about these things. what does that mean in guy terms, and btw all my friends think he likes me and hes always acting like he does, soo im confused!!!

soo now what i wanted to add, is that he told me last night that he was going away for the whole summer, and im also going to away (we're both leaving the country). soo maybe do you think he doesnt want to start a relationship that would have to be put on pause for the whole summer? I didnt know if that would affect his decision soo please help, and if you could maybe elaborate on your advice from before that would be awsome!!! thanks soo much, your advice has been the best! (link)
Thanks so much!!!You are really sweet..I will tell you what i really believe...Boys are like that!Sometimes they want a girl and afterwards they get mad or sth like that...
This guy probably likes you...He cannot be like that if he doesn't like you.If your friends say that, who know both of you it is possible that he likes you...
He told you that he will go away so that means that you will not see each other.If he is mature, then that means that he does not want quick relationships that end when summer comes..His behaviour shows me that he is mature and that if he likes you, he likes you VERY much...
Do you remember what i told you?Forget it.I think he likes you and that he does not want immediately to be with you because you will be both away...
Here's how to know if some one likes you: 1. Keep an eye on how many times you catch him staring at you. 2. Take notice of whether he smiles at you a lot. 3. Look for whether he focuses on you in a crowd. 4. Observe if he has suddenly taken more interest in your friends. 5. Pay attention to any significan't changes in his behavior toward you recently. 6. Start showing him a bit more interest and see how they respond. 7. Have a friend talk to him or one of his friends about you. 8. Ask, '[name], are you interested in me?' Tips: Hopefully you will not have to use steps 7 or 8, but if you're having difficulty reading him, these steps are your last resort! Remember, this is not an exact science, and it may take a few mistakes to perfect your technique.

The easiest way to tell (for anyone) is to just take an innocent step into their personal space. If they aren't interested then they will step away. If they are interested then they will set closer boundries for you and will therefore not mind your closer-than-normal presense.

One of the signs that a boy likes you is when he always teases you or makes fun/jokes.

He seems to find reasons to be with or near you. He may come up with what you think are lame or legit reasons to speak to you, call you, ask something. Try watching if he looks into your eyes or at least eye contact when he talks to you. Does he find ways to be closer to your body, near you, sit close or on the same side of the room as you? Does he talk to you instead of at you? Does he want your opinion? Cares what you have to say? Does he seem to be around you often, when he can? Does his face lighten up or seem to go from stress to unstressed when you walk in or say hello? A guy may not be obvious about it either, especially if he's shy, or maybe a little unsure of himself, which doesn't mean he's a loser at all but probably warmer from with in or more depth to him, more sensitive.

Boys might not tell you directly, but they may tell someone. Or perhaps when you are not around but your friend is there he will ask for you.
Here are some other signs: he acts distracted when he's around you and fumbles for things. From the corner of your eye you think he is looking at you but when you look up he turns away abruptly and you think you are imagining things. He tries to like all the things you do. Your instinct tells you that he feels for you but your rational part says you are sure to be wrong.
Shy guys can be very hard to read but there are some sure signs: They might be looking at you but if you look back then they'll quickly look away. He will always laugh at funny things you do. Don't get discouraged if he talks more to other girls. Shy guys are very attracted to outgoing girls, so don't be afraid to be outgoing! Here's what you can do: when you're in a group of people and he's there, ask to the group if anyone would like to go on a walk, or go do something with you. Be sure that it would be a two person activity. If the guy you like agrees, then this is good. You can guarantee you'll have a good conversation with him if you ask a lot of questions. Be sure to tell him if you have soemthing in common.


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omg thank you soo much, ur advice is awsome!




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