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I have liked this guy for about one year now, but I really don't want to like him anymore. It has grown awkward between us lately after he found out that I like him and I just want things to go back to the way they used to be, but the problem is I can't stop liking him. Like whenever I think I'm over him he will do something that I think is cute and I will start to like him all over again. I'm just sick of it. If you guys have any advice I would be very appreciative! (link)
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Hun, I know EXACTLY what you are going through. I went through the same thing with one of my good guy friends. It's probably one of the hardest things to do in life, just to let go.
There are no steps, no actions to take to make it happen. There is no process to get over him. You basically have to talk yourself through every day, reminding yourself of the bad thing (It's hard I know, but it's what us girls have to do.)
It took me THREE tries to forget the guy I liked, each time got harder to let go and you feel like you're going to burst into a million pieces, but then one day you'll wake up and the wieght of the world is lifted. It just happens.
What I hate is the fact that people tell you not to be near the guy. It just hurts more that way. You long for him and reminise about the memories. And you don't want to give up a friendship either.
So hun, the best thing to do is wait it out and eventually it will happen. It will all be over
Good luck and keep your head up. You'll do fine.
P.s. It's prefectly fine to cry yourself to sleep, or express yourself in a journal or something along those lines...don't forget about sappy music too!
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