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My Ex boyfriend and I are pretty good friends, and I like being friends with him except it really walks on my last nerve when he flirts with my friend Abby. I don't like him that way; thats not even the point. It's that everytime I look at them their always flirting and poking each other and when he's around me it makes me feel like he uses me to get to her. Because he won't talk to me until he is away from her. That really pisses me off. You can't talk to him, or her because they won't listin. She's nutty and he's a crack. So how can I deal with this? (link)
EDIT: If you don't like him.. then why are you asking for advice?
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The best way to deal with it is to get over it. It's not really your territory anymore since you broke up, so you can't control who he's intersted in and who he's not. That goes for your friend Abby as well. When it comes down to it, it's their decision. I'm sure they aren't flirting to get to you. And I highly doubt he's using you. How would going though an ex to get to her best friend help him? If anything it would hurt him because she knows about his previous relationship with you, and knowing someones mistakes can often make them undesirable.


Rating: 3
I don't like him & there for I don't care what he does.




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