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Q: ok when my grade started i saw this guy named tuckermen and i thought that i was head over heels for him but my friend feels the same all about him and i felt like im competing for him .
and about 2 months ago i found out that he didnt like me only like a kinda friend and i was ok with that and i stop flirting with him everything i cut off all feelings for him.but now i donno i have now started flurting wiht him but i cant help that i do that with every guy now .and everytime he says anything like you still like me dont you i always say NO but im not sure i wanna not like him he called me fat witch i am but im going on a diet to lose wieght and what i hate is i now have started to care what people thought of me and uh i dont care i'd do anything in public who cares what people think but if hes in the croud i couldnt id be making a complete fool of myself and i just wana tel everyone in the would to kiss my ass but uh i dont wanna like him i wanna hate him i wanna tell everyone i still dont like him without lieing but i cant what do i do i cnat stop thinking about him and no one knows at all they think that i think thats tucker is dirt and i wanna think that and for a month ive hated him but why do i think that i still like him i think i love him but im only 13 i couldnt and he doenst fell the same way and im never ganna cange myself for a guy but i cnat help but try i wanna see what will happen and this is wierd and i belive in zodiac things so bear with me

When a down-to-earth Taurus and a dreamy Pisces come together, they often find harmony. Level headed Taurus is more grounded and has a mind for what is important in life. Day-dreaming Pisces can show Taurus how to reach for the stars. Together they have balance. Pisces is the balloon – always floating around in the clouds. Taurus is the string, grounding it back to earth. What would one be without the other?

im the Pisces but what do i do i showed this to kayliegh the one taht likes him and she flipped her lid and tucker has a 9th grader as a girlfriend i think he wouldnt dump her for me .kayliegh seems to be so jelouse and i dont think she wants to trade and ive had dreams about me and him nothing sexual but nice dreams only like kissing and i kno it will never happen and why am i so negitve im goofy around my friends but if im planning to do somthing wroung i think of what will happen so i plan on not to do it and if i plan on doing somthing good i think oof somthing bad thatw ill come out of it and im 13 girl and thank you for reading this im sorry its so long but trust me i cut it down !!!!!!!! HELP i rate high all 5s promiss anything .::katie::. help help help
Dear Katie,

First of all, I admire your courage for even talking about this. I'm overweight too but I am too shy to talk about it. I'm not saying you should be shy though! lol
Anyway, I've learned this valuable lesson last year: Do not approach a guy, even if you think he does like you. If he really does like you, he'll make a move.
Do not assume he's shy, because that one is definitely not!
1- He asked out other girls!
2- he called you fat.
Does this guy seem shy? I think not.
Flirting is pretty normal for us girls, most of us always want to win the guys.
Do not lose your weight for him, lose it for yourself. You cannot lose weight for the wrong reason. I dont wanna scare you, but say he doesn't ask you out after you've lost all that weight? You're probably gonna be devastated and start gaining weight again.
Believe me, I've been through all of this. I lost a few pounds for a guy, and when he stopped contacting me, I started eating junk again.
And I don't think you should go out with a guy who called you fat. If he does ask you out after you've lost weight, then he's pure shallow. That kinda guy only thinks bout appearance, and not personality.
I am open minded, so I will not say anything about your zodiac believes. But a question: Is that guy the only Taurus in your school?
I don't think so. I'm sorry to say this, but I find that you are slightly dependent on Taurus. Do not be so dependent on guys; where's the "girl power"? They're the ones who can't live without us.
And bout those dreams, it's 110 % normal. In our dreams, we often see things that we desire.

thaks for the awsome advice and sorry for it being so long but i cut it sort so thanks

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