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Member Since: October 14, 2005
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alright guys. well. tonight i think i'm going to the movies with my boyfriend. and he wants to see into the blue. you know the one with jessica alba and the REALLY hott guy with the nice 6pack abs? alright. well the problem is that if we go i know the whole time he'll be like in his head thinking goddamn she's so fine blahblah about jessica alba. but i'm not like that when i'm with him. and i bet that later on he'd tell me how hot she looked in different sceens and stuff. so i'm like... well i'll see if i can go to that one even though i really don't want to.

i really don't think thats a "couples" movie.
thats like. horny guy alone. do you agree?

and if like you were me (if you're a girl) would it bother you that like he'll talk about that stuff after the movie, when he know's that you wont talk about how hot the guys is?

please help as soon as you can. (link)
In my opinion, i think he's just testing you! Testing to see how much you can take, with this whole jealousy thing. My boyfriend does the exact same thing, and i used to get really agitated and annoyed about it sometimes fuming mad. It's a bruise to the ego when you know, you should be in the limelight not Jessica Alba! I understand! What i think you should do, is go to the movie and show him that you are a strong-willed, self-confident woman. If he brings up Jessica Alba after the movie, you say "yah i think she was pretty hot too and leave it at that! He'll be absolutely dumbfounded, it would be so unexpected from you. The thing that men find attractive about a women, is when you do not criticize other women, but can sit there and say "yah, she is pretty hot!" even though it may bother you, it will make you feel better to say something good about someone else, rather than something critical. It will make you look better in front of your boyfriend too!


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:D Good idea! THANKS.




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