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I'm going to be a freshman this year, but a few years back, when I was a sixth and seventh grader, I was constantly teasted by this boy who called be bighead (ok, so my head is bigger than normal). During eigth grade when he left for high school, it was the best year. He used to tease me, and when I told him to stop he'd just laugh. Ignoring him didn't work either. Now I'm worried he's going to be up to his old habits again. How should I handle this? By the way, there is no way I can go to the guidance counselor or tell an adult, I just can't, so please tell me how i can handle this myself.


I'm female/ 14, and no, he doesn't have a crush on me.

Hey,
Well i think that he's probably matured more now. The whole "big head" insult is most likely an old joke to him.
But if for any reason he does bother you again, you can't just tell him to stop. Be assertive and tell him to shut the fuck up. Atleast thats what i would do. I know everyone always says, "two wrongs dont make a right" but sometimes it works to give them a taste of their own medicin. Find something bad about him and totally exadurate it and make him feel horrible.
I honestly think that he should be over it by now...hopefully he's matured.

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