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Ever since my grandpa died, my family started spliting apart. It's full of hate. One of my uncles is very mean and grumpy towards everyone else now because of his job. He especially takes it out on me. When he critisizes me, I have to keep quiet and agree because if I don't he will yell louder and call me disrespectful. I really do not like him telling me how to live my life and yelling at me for the littlest reasons. I can't talk to him because he is very stubborn. I can't avoid him because he lives next door to me. Someone please help..he's making me feel bad and breaking our whole family apart because of his opinions.

First of all- don't feel bad by what your uncle says about you. Just brush it off, roll your eyes in your head. No one likes to be told how to live their lives, expecially by someone in really has no right to. Just tell yourself that his opinion dosn't matter- because honestly, it dosn't.

As for him always coming over and tearing apart your family, do you have a secure relationship with your parent(s) where you can discuss this with one of them? Or any member of your family who might be able to help. I'm sorry I can't help you more than that, but as he's quite irrational by the sound of it- just try to stay away as much as possible, and not let what he says affect you- maybe the rest of the family will catch on.

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