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One of my best friends just told me that she liked me today. She asked me if i had any feelings about it and i said not yet. The problem is that i don't really know if i like her as more than a friend. I used to like her like about a month ago, but i stopped. This may not make any sense but i want to like her as more than a friend because she is one of the nicest people i know, but i just don't think i see her that way. Is that possible? I don't want to hurt her and tell her that i'm not interested but i don't want to go out with her either. What should i do?

Be honest with her.

Tell her how much you do like her as a friend but you simply don't know whether there could be more and at this stage, you are not ready to find out. If you are sure the answer will be no, then tell her that now and save her holding out for something that may not happen but if you really dont' know, tell her that instead.

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