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Hey guys, I've been single for a really long time now and I really want a boyfriend. I'm 14/f, and I feel like I'll never get a boyfriend again. I still feel really bad from my last relationship. I have no guys to talk to or anything. When I go places, I hate seeing people with their boyfriend or girlfriend and having a good time, or even Valentines Day and Sweetest Day. How do i meet guys? I used to always go to the mall and the movies, and I liked people there but I'm really shy. It's hard to just go up to people and say something. How can I get some guy friends atleast, so I have someone to talk to? Thank you so much to anyone who answers! I'm so sorry this was long.

I know you might feel like it is a long time, but in reality it isn't.

One thing age teaches you is that a year when you are 14 seems like eternity. When you 34, it seems like a small bump in history.

Although I applaud your seeking advice on how to make some male friends, try and do so to make friends, not to "find a boyfriend". You don't need that kind of pressure and it usually means you end up making bad choices out of desperation.

As for making male friends, if there aren't any your age as enighbours that you already know or at school, try joining a club that has mixed participation. Try tennis or squash or whatever. I'm not sure what your interests are. Also, try remembering that most 14 year old boys are just as shy and looking for someone too. So even if you don't want to make the first move to talk to someone, at least try and make it easy for them to approach you. Be friendly.

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