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I know you don't dig relationship questions (I don't either), but I'd appreciate an answer. :)
Here's the issue. I've got 3 boys in my life whom I'd consider dating seriously. All 3 of them want a serious relationship, but I know I'm not ready. Commitment sucks. I like being unattached. I'm 17 for crying out loud. I still watch Degrassi and do obnoxious things with my friends.
So I know I should tell them straight out and I plan to, but I'm afraid of hurting them. If you were one of those three guys, do you think you'd be hurt? Is there a way I can soften the blow?
Back when I agreed with the whole "fuck relationships" philosophy (not very long ago), I had to flat out tell a couple girls that no, I would not date them. Yeah, they weren't too happy with that, but what could I do? I'm not compromising my principles for a relationship that is doomed to failure. (This is, of course, before I met my current girlfriend, who raped and destroyed my logic and philosophy and I haven't been this happy ever before.)
I just came out and said it. I suggest you do the same. Without being straightforward about it, you'll seem like you could sway easily, and they may keep pushing.
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Thanks a bunch, but you didn't quite answer my question. I appreciate your thoughts, though.
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