Member Since: January 6, 2005
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ok so i am supposed to go to a sleepover next weekend, only there will be some guys there that my parents really don't like, and so they won't let me go. thing is, there is really nothing bad about them but they won't listen, and still refuse to let me go. what should i do? because i really want to go, and i'm afraid they won't be friends with me anymore if i tell them. (link)
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You've got advice from two people who are telling you to be sneaky. Do you really want to lose your parents' trust in you? Believe me, that is the worst thing to have!
Ask your parents why they don't like them. Get into a conversation with them, but don't be defensive or childish about it. Be adult about it, be truly curious about their reasons. Listen to them. Chances are they are not unreasonable, they have heard or seen things that you may not know. Be objective about your reaction.
If you're possibly going to lose their friendship because you can't go to a sleepover, then they are not worthy of your friendship.
Friends come and go, parents last forever. Face it, you will always have your parents to go back to, so don't mess up your relationship with them by being sneaky or pulling any acts. Hope I helped, even though it's probably not the answer you wanted.
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thanks so much. its really good advice, and i'll try it
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