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Hey, you give good advice so i thought I'd give it a try! Well ne ways. I'm 15 years old and me and my boyfriend have been dating for 5 months so far. He's 3 years older than me and its hard for us because of my family not liking the age difference. Besides that, he's in trouble with the law! He just got out of jail for violation of probation. He took the blame for someone, so thats why hes on probation in the first place. He violated it because he couldn't pay the monthly bills. But ne ways he got out and then his stepmom went and tore up his room and tried to get him in trouble again. He didn't have ne thing bad, it made him mad that she did that, so he ran off. Well, now he's on the run again. He use to call me everyday, but now he calls every so often. I haven't talked to him in 3 days and I'm worried. No one knows where he is. My friends keep saying that hes a crappy boyfriend. I really don't know what to do. I really do love him, and i know he feels the same. He tells me all the time how much he loves me. But my friends who just got out of a relationship b/c of THEIR crappy boyfriends tell me that he doesn't love me and he doesn't care, but I KNOW he does. He's not a bad person, hes jusr gotten in trouble. Should I keep this relationship going? If you have advice for me, I would appreciate it. Sorry this is so long. I've just been depressed about it. Thanx bunches! Brittany

Brittany, I really do feel for your boyfriend. He seems like a troubled guy who just needs a bit of advice to get him on the right track again. From your message above it seems to me that you really like this guy and nobody can change that feeling. Don't listen to your friends who can't tell you whether the guy loves you or not.
I really think this is a question you have the answer on your own. Do you love this long enough to endure all of the events that he went and is going through? The guy you talk about definitely has a few unresolved issues, and you must be ready to deal with them.

Your best course of action right now is to wait it out. I don't recommend you try to find him as that may complicate things a bit. If this guy truly loves you, he will try to make contact with you soon enough. If he doesn't make contact with you within a reasonable amount of time I suggest you move on with your life.

Good Luck

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