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Q: (yes i just asked the q about the x bf..) anyways.. ohh my boyfriend ryan..i love him so much. i know hes ready for sex, and i am too. we tried it once..fully no clothes but he wasnt hard enough at the time so he couldnt put it in me. then tonight, i ended up giving him head..(FOR THE FIRST TIME) and i must have given him head for a minuet..then he pushed me away cuz he cumed! im like..wow? am i that good..? idk! anyways..like i REALLY want to have sex with him, just because i know we're both ready..but it always takes us SO long to get to that point. we're the kind of couple that kisses and makes out ALOT..and we ususally do forever before we do anything. like we'll be in his room and make out on his bed for an hour before we do anything. how do i speed things up ah bit?

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Why rush? Making out is half the fun. I can't decide for you whether or not you are both ready to take your relationship to the next level, but maybe the reason ya'll are spending so much time working your way up to that point is because ya'll aren't ready to go there yet. If you are absolutely sure that you are ready, then maybe he's the one who's hesitant. Most guy's find it hard to admit that they aren't ready. Just be patient, and in the mean time, enjoy yourself.

Rating: 5

thanks so much sunshine!:) x0x!

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I can give advice to anyone of any age, because I'm still young enough to be able to relate to the problems that teens face, but I'm not so young that I haven't had to deal with adult issues. So if you have any questions, just drop them in my inbox, and I'll answer them as soon as I can.