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hEy...well 0kay..i guess i`m pretty y0ung..but a l0t 0f people tell me that i shud bec0me a therapist s0meday...really th0..i wanna maj0r in psych0logy...n0body rEally kn0wz that tho..well n0w` they d0 i guess..anyway...f0r fun? i like t0 kickk it wit my friEndz` 0r my b0yfriend kevin`...hez 0ne in a milli0n. i l0ve writin` en...i live f0r music..on tha rEal. but Eniway..enuf ab0ut me...ima try t0 help y0u tha best that i caN...in h0pez that maybe y0u can help me...iight th0..d0nt be shy..hit me up 0n AiM if itz hella imp0rtant. ...`1luv
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i've kinda been messin around with this guy for about a month now, I really like him a lot, and hes nice to me and treats me right and stuff, but we've never talked about having a relationship, but he wants to take our physical relationship to the "next level" and I dont know what to do because I won't do that with him if I'm not even sure that he likes me, what I really need help with, how do I talk to him about this, I know that I've already messed up by having a physical relationship with him, but if you were me, you might understand? but I just want to tell him how I feel and I don't really want to do anything with him unless he really likes me, but.. I want to tell him that in a way that won't be weird for either of us you know? sorry if this is complicating but you seem like you know what you're talking about (btw if it helps 15/f)
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first of all...you said..."if you were me"...if i was you..i wudn`t have started a physical relationship with someone...I know you want guys to respect you, and you make it difficult for them when you mess around with them...without even talking about getting commited. basically...you guys are mess around buddies..so far. Now...If I were you (again)..i would tell him there's no more messing around unless a relationship starts..i wud tell him that you feel like you messed up for starting it anyway..but you really like him now, and you dont want him to leave just because you w0nt do stuff with him...there's the test to see if he likes you. If he tells you he doesn't want a relationship and just stops takling to you...well..the answers obvious. But who knows? Maybe he'll come around to getting commited. You DEFINITLY should tell him EXACTLY how your feeling, and show a little respect for y0urself girl...y0u desserve it...stand up t0 him a little bit...i kn0w it feels like y0ur bein used rite n0w...it shudn`t feel like that..it shud have NEVER felt like that...just tell him that. hope i helped...keep str0ng :)...x0.
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thanks soo much it really helps you're soo understanding thank you so much you've made things a lot easier on me!
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