lets see im about 5*4 or 5*5 in hieght. I've played alot of sports, I like to sing, and I like to have fun. I've had my share of problems so i like to help others with thiers. Some situations are very similar to things ive gone through. I help out my friends all the time. So feel free to ask me about anything.
E-mail: gradof2007@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Florida
Occupation: Busser at a Senior Living Place
Age: 16
AIM: bebgrlmary96
Yahoo: wuv1988@yahoo.com
MSN: gradof2007@hotmail.com
Member Since: July 22, 2004
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i like this guy named sage. He likes me. we both know we like eachother. well the other day i was out w/ a bunch of friends and he was like... do you think i am sweet? and i was like no comment. he has a gf or he would have already asked me out. he came up to me just about the time we were going to leave and was like... u turned me down. i told him i was sry but i didnt want all my friends to kno right then. i told him i was going to wait until we started going out. then he was like we might not. WHAT?!?!? he may b moving to another state. now he is mad @ me for turning him down. he didn't show up the next day when we went top go hang out w/ all our friends. so what do i do? do i call him or wat? Help Me quick! he might come to "the spot" where we hang tonight! (link)
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you could call him talk it out ~ tell him ur sorry for turnin him down ~ but hun... if hes got a gf... id tell um u cant touch till ur single cause i dont mess with playas ~ *mare*
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i dont no recently during the summer all my friends like abandoned me.. i have like 2 rly good friends but we like never hang out i dno.. what should i do?? all my friends ditched mee.. (link)
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ask them whats going on ~ real friends dont just ditch you. maybe theres a reason for them disapearing on you... ~ *mare*
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my friends r mad at me and i do not know what to do they say i need to shut the F*** up but i have not talked to them and my other friends go online as my best friends name and sends me rude messages what should i do (link)
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talk it out... i mean oviously something bug n them ~ so why not ask what that is... solve the prob. by talking it out ~ with NICE words...and talk calmly like your serious and show them you care bout the friendship...
*mare*
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Hi, I am Noni and my family hates my boyfriend. Only because he dresses gothic. I mean, he believes in God though. Anyways, I really like him, and he really likes me. My mom refuses to let me call him, e-mail him, and all. He is really sweet. And everyone thinks I should break up with him because he is going to high school, and I'm only going to 7th grade. And I am 13 and he's nearly 15. I am 13 and a female. What should I do? (link)
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If you like this guy, stick with him. I hate how people judge others by apperance. But it happends. Sit your mom down and explain to her "calmly" thats a key right there... speak to her clear, but calm... dont raise your voice. But hopefully she will see how much this guy means to you. And just because hes in high school dont mean nothing! Its only about what a year and a half differance in age?... Thats not bad at all. But... make sure this guy isnt just with u for... ya know... I think your family is just worried for you. So dont take nothin they say the wrong way. Just explain to them that this is a guy you really like, you cant help the way you feel. Just pray to God about it all. That will be a big help right there. Good luck *mare*
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i like this boy and he doesn't like me and i have a major crush on himk but i dunno what to do! sooo what should i do? (link)
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Ive been in your shoes before. I had a major crush on a guy for lik a year and a half!... But... theres no use crushing over someone who aint feeling you the same way. Dont go to the guy... have the guy... come to you... Dont focus all on this guy. Because maybe theres one check you out and hes perfect for you. BUt you dont notice him cause your to preocupied by the guy whos not even interested...
*mary*
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ahh!! ok, soo I've been playing the piano for about 5 years. when I first started my mom literally had to drag me there because I didn't want to do it. then I was lying to her saying I enjoyed it. I thought, hey if I did something for my mom, maybe she wouldn't hate me. But anyways, I have been telling her I dont want to do it anymore for about a year. She said to me today "I dont want to listen to this. you dont want to do anything but sit on your lazy ass" OMG, I can't stand this! I hate the piano! My mom tells me she loves me but those are just words. she doesn't actually mean it. Whenever I try to talk her her she's like "I'm not going to listen to this! You're a very ungrateful spoiled brat" Oh, and she was on the phone and said "she always complains school is very hard for her, but why would she graduate number 2 out of 360?" OMG, I have to study about 5 hours a day, and spend about 3 hours on homework!! Please help! She does take me to the barn every day and does help me but I think thats only because horseback riding is my sport and she wants to get me "off my lazy ass" (link)
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Ok... ive been having a little trouble with my mom too. Like whatever I do its never good enough. I always do something wrong... and she always tells me "the world doesnt revolve around you" when all i do is try to be good for her... So i kinda know where your comming from. But your mom does love you, and she just wants to see you go far in life. Try to explain it all to your mom on how your feeling... tell her what you just told everyone about how you wanted to do something for her (the piano)but how u always felt aboutit. And if she dont listen... make her listen. I play piano to and my mom had to drag me to lessons... i love it now... but... maybe your mom thinks lik... if you quit you'll regret it later... cause i always told my mom "i hate piano" and now i love it... Jus hang in there hun. I dont know if you believe in God or not, i do and everytime i pray to him he always comes through for me... You could try it... Ill pray for you too. Good Luck *mary*
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one of my best friends wants to go out with the guy that i like and she knows i like him. what should i do? (link)
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Talk to her about it. Be upfront with her, on how you feel. But trust me... no guy is worth loosing a friendship... specialy bestfriends. I liked a guy once and my friend liked him to... but she tried to get me with him... then one night she called me up and asked me if she could ask him out... omlordy i was lik mortified. But of corse being me i told her it was ok... but it really wasnt...next thing i know they are dating... she said she felt bad, and she ended up breaking up with him because it hurt me... we arent really friends anymore though... so really we lost a friendship... and both were w.out a boyfriend... we gained nothing...
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i like several guys. one of them being a guy named steven. we are really good friends and just yesterday he asked me about one of my friends erica. he was like is she single? i told him yes but i am now wishing i told him no. He is a redneck (my type)and we have a lot in common. too bad he likes erica. i dont really think erica would be very good for him b/c she likes bad boyz and that he is not. how to i get the point across to him that erica is not his type and that i am better for him??
>>>i rate good (link)
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ok number one... did you really want this guy as much as u do now BeFORE... he asked about erica?... cause if not your just being greedy... But if he stood out more then all the other guys you liked... then... just tell him how you feel about him. Be like hey...i need to tell you that i like you... alot ~ and just spill to him. But leave erica out cause... that might spirk sum problems... just talk about how you feel about him. But if you were just being greedy... let him have a shot at erica... Good luck Hun. *mare*
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i think im in love with my best friend... im a girl... lol n hez a guy. well ive known him since sixth grade... n now im going to 8th... n in 6th grade he had this dorky musroom haircut... n in 7th grade he cut his hair... n he looks reallii cute but usually hez not my type... i mean im in love with little ghetto boyz... n my best friend iz like more abrocombie... dont get me wrong i love abrocombie... i feel like my style is changing n i really dont know wut to do cuz he went out with my ex best friend in 6th grade... n i hated her when they went out becuz... we were fighting ova another guy b4 that... n my best friend dumpd my ex best friend... n im scared he wont like me... but im not even sure how i feel about him.
P.S. i love adri n matt like a fat kid loves kake!! (link)
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Ive been told that best friends make the best couples... But listen make sure you really like this kid, before you try to take it up a level. Because if its really nothing big... then i wouldnt make a move. But if you feel like your really in love with this kid. Tell him. Because you could miss out on someting really special if you dont. If he dont feel the same way, then just stay friends. I have had a crush on mah best friend be4... for like a long time. But we always stayed friends. He had a crush on me one time but i had a bf then and i never knew he liked me like that. If me and him woulda just comunicated on the subject... who knows... we maybe would be datin right now.
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k me and my boyfriend had sex lat night...and we didnt use a condom but he pulled out right bofore he came. but i was kind of worried because he got a little "stuff" right below where he puts his....well you know...is it possible for something to happen? or does it actually have to be inside the girl?? PLEASE HELP ME!!!! (link)
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Im sorry to tell you... but yes it is possible for something to happen. This is why you NEVER have sex w/out a condom. You should know all this stuff before even having sex. No offense of course. But sex is a very serious thing. Go to a store get a P.G. test. And if it shows pos. then take a trip to the doctors... good luck huni ~
*mare*
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