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Name* Katherine Suzanne

Sex* Female

Age* 15

B-day* Sept. 14, 1989

Grade: Freshman!

Location* Georgia

Height* 5'3 hehe I've got tall shoes though!

Hair Color* blonde.. we have more fun! :P

Eye Color* Hazel

Statz* Taken by the most wonderful guy in the world! I love you Zachary!

advice

Hey , ok will i had an orgasm with my boyfriend and like i started shakin , and he was like wth is wrong with u I was so embarssed ! And then we had sex and like idk i started shaking again! is this normal?

yeah it is! haha ...i guess it just feels really good to you so you can't help it... i wouldn't worry about it :)

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Well there is this boy at my new school that I really like. But I don't think he is gonna ever giv me tha time of day. Should i just forget about likeing him or wut???

well if you think he's gonna be mean and not even talk to you then heck no you shouldn't like a guy like that! but i mean if he's a nice guy and you really like him alot, then flirt with him and do stuff to try to get his attention! :)

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Hey , well me and my boyfriend had sex for the first time , and like now whenever i talked to him adn see him he acts so differnt and like is shy and doesnt talk to me , and he keeps ignoring my phone calls ,and stuff like that ! Do you think it is a another girl ? Or what ?

i don't know what it could be. maybe he's just kind of embarrassed about the situation and he's not sure how you feel about it. Talk to him. If he's not returning your phone calls, then next time you see him ask him what's going on. Tell him your feelings about the whole situation and it was a big step in ya'lls relationship and you don't want to mess it up because now ya'll are apart of eachother. Ask him how he feels about it too! :) hopefully talking about it will help him get over the confusion! hope i helped!! good luck!

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Sometimes my vaginal area hurts really bad after sex with my long term boyfriend..and i am afraid to tell him about it because i don't want him to feel bad for hurting me! is that normal? Should i like..have sex with some other random person to see if it is just my boyfriend that hurts? i need help!

noooo!! don't have sex with someone else! You have a boyfriend!!! ..maybe it hurts because you're getting dry down there. don't use sented or flavored condoms. that tends to dry you out. try buying some vaginal cream and use it before ya'll have sex. if the problem keeps occuring, don't be scared to tell him! wouldn't you want him to tell you if you're hurting him so you could fix it? well good luck! if my advice doesn't work, then ask me again and i can think of something else :)

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hey , well I like this boy in my class and he is like a BIG flirt and like talks about how good girls look and stuff like that I mean it normal for a guy right? Anyways he would talk to me and tell me how good I look like just joking around with me ( I think he liked me ) and I liked him to so I would just laugh and say , shut up , but now he doesnt do it anymore and is talking about my friend , and it is kinda annoying and now he is mad at me b.c I was mad that he liked her , but I really like him thats the only reason why I got mad !But he doesnt know it and I WILL NOT dar ask him out , I mean I am a lady , but I really like this guy ! I am so confussed ! :/ what should I do ???

well you don't have to ask him out! but you should talk to him about it! tell him why you got upset and apologize. tell him how much you really like him and it just really hurt when you found out that he liked your friend. (maybe he moved on because he thought you didn't like him.... so show him that you do!!) :o)

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i've been dating my boyfriend for like, a year and half. hes so gorgeous and i know he wnats to take our relationship to another leevl, but hes too much of a gentleman to be too aggresive about it. i was wondering if you think a year and a half is a suitable amount of time to wait to have sex.

well yeah.. i mean if you think that you're ready. It only matters what YOU think and how YOU feel. Only do it if you KNOW you're ready! :)

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dear kat thanks for the advice about that girl i was the one who told u that u coudl be in the newspaper rememebr well see that girl i like i got a lot of competition with some of my friends right now about her and like so many people are tryin to get with her and if they do its gonna make me really mad becuz i have sat back and watched her go out with other guys like 10 times since we broke up and i need to find a way to get her to come somewhere with me and the people i roll with and i need to know how to move in on her to get her to like me u know like how to get things started up with her well thanks so much for doin this ur sooooo good at it if u stopped a lot of ppl would be lost cuz u've helped so many already keep up the great work

aww thank you! ..yeah i was thinking about deleting it but idk i might keep it up. yeah but anyway, seriously ask her to go out with you somewhere. but if she's a big flirt then maybe you should ask HER to just go with you and no one else. Call her up this weekend and just be like "yea i was really bored tonight and i was just gonna see if you were home and if you wanted to do something." if she can't then ask her if she wants to do something the next night. Show her that you like her. If you don't, she'll never know. And girls NEVER ask! they would feel too rejected if you told her you didn't like her. So you're going to have to let her know. Maybe not verbally yet, but at least really show her for right now. After ya'll go somewhere express your feelings to her. Make sure all of your attention is on her and be very nice. but not too attached (remember ya'll aren't dating yet!!!) but definitely be a gentleman and pay and stuff for her. GOOD LUCK!! Let me know if you need anymore help

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HeY!! I jsut found out about your advice column and i neede to ask you something!! Ok, well there is this boy in one of my classes and I think tht he likes me? But today in class the partner tht i was working with told me tht he did like me but i dont know if he was lieing or tellingt he truth? cuz this boy thtt i think likes me always flirts with me and he always stares at me in class! But i dont know if he really does like me or they are just playing around I would ask but im really shy so idk?? Can you help me?

aww well it definitely sounds like he does like you. If he keeps staring at you and flirting with you and stuff then just jokingly be like "oh yeah I heard you like me!" then just laugh and kind of nudge him. Hopefully he'll respond to that :) tell me if that works or not.. and if it doesn't then i'll think of something else!!

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I have this girl at my school shes really snobby, and she wont tlk to you enless your like perfect like she claims to be. She really tics me off and I dont even know her. I dont have nething aginst her but still just the way she looks at me..Or acts toward other people

oh i'm sorry... but what were you getting at?

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whats goin on kat? this advice thing is awesome keep it up and u can be in the newspaper or somethin. well anyways i got this problem i like this girl a lot and i have had feelins for her off and on since around christmas last year. i see her all the time and when i'm around her we flirt and all but shes a big flirt and i have no idea how she would really feel about me if i asked her i mean we had somethin goin for a while last year but i fucked up i really want her back though i really like her a lot what should i do?

haha aww thanks!! :o) but anyway, if ya'll have had something going on for that long then she obviously has to have feelings for her. First I would take her out somewhere with you and a bunch of ya'lls friends (that way you can be with her without her knowing that you want to be WITH her! haha) start flirting with her more to show that you might be interested. After ya'll go out with friends a few times then you should take her out with just ya'll two a couple of times. After that, you should tell her how you feel about her. (if you don't tell her then she'll never know! haha and most likely if she DOES like you she won't be the first one to say it!) so you should tell her! then ask her about her feelings. Then i'm sure you'll get your answer! Best of luck!!!

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ok.. i have this friend and she acts like a slut! i mean we have been friends FOREVER but every guy i like she either kisses or there was this one time when she had sex with one of them!.. my parents dont really like her b/c we always get in trouble together but what should i do.. should i stay friends?? help?!?

no! not if she's going to be a bad influence on you! You should always want to surround yourself with positive and good people. Be a leader not a follower! I'm sure she will one day make some sort of affect on you if she hasn't already. So be careful. You don't have to end it in a bad way, just gradually stop doing things with her. Find friends that will influence you for the better not the worse! :o]

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hey Kat hows things goin with you and Zach? ive got a problem... im really into this chick i have dated before and when we broke up we stayed really good friends and now we might get back together but i have feelings for this girl thats younger than me lol help me out here

lol we're great! :) thanks for asking! ...but anyway either girl you date you're going to have feelings for the other one ya know? and that wouldn't be fair at all. So you're going to have to really think about it and choose. I can't tell you which one to pick between because I don't know the kind of relationship you have with both of the girls. But if you do end up dating the younger girl, then make sure you won't ruin things with you and your friend. That way if you want to have a relationship with her in the future, then you won't mess things up between ya'll! :] hope i helped! good luck.

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alrighty.. well me and my boyfriend broke up.. he said i was just nothing and all this other kind of junk.. but i feel SO in love with him and it hurts so bad.. i dont want it to be like this and i want him to tell the truth and i wanna know if hes lyin now when he says im nothing or if he means it.. i wish i could make him understand and be with him but idk wut to do hope u can help...

that's horrible! heck no girl don't go running back to him if he's going to treat you like that! That would just show that you're weak and he would know that he has power over you. Stand up for yourself! You deserve someone better. No one deserves someone like that! :)

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Ok... I really like this guy named Mac, but he has a g/f. She's moving away in like a month though. Do you think it's bad to be happy that she's moving? I mean I really, really like this guy, but I feel kinda bad for wishing her away, even though we're not friends. What am I supposed to do? I'm Confused.

no, I don't think that's really all that bad that you're happy, especially since ya'll aren't friends. I mean as long as you don't go around talking about how glad you are that she's moving. But I would wait a while after she moves if you want to start talking to Mac. I mean it's hard enough on her that she's moving, so i'm sure she doesn't want someone dating her boy friend right away! :)

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i havnt had a girlfriend for 2 years and its really starting to bother me right now...i guess its because im a shy person...how can i help this?

meet new people! once girls really get to know you i'm sure they would like you! introduce youself and then just start up a conversation with them. :)

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well me and my boyfriend been dating not even 3 months yet but known each other like for SO long.. we already have had sex ALOT.. one night i started bleedin after we had intercouse and i know it wasnt my cherry bein poped that already happend and i kno it wasnt my period.. and now im like bleedin every one in a while but im on the shot so idk its just scaring me.. heLp!

Gosh I have no clue? I've never even heard of that. I'm sorry! You should go to a doctor about it though and get it checked out! Good luck. :)

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OMG! ok well see me and my bf havent been datin too too long but hes already fingered me and i definatly want to return the favor (hand job) but i dont know how! I dont wanna hurt him!!! if you could explain how to do it... that would be sooo helpful!! thanx!

haha i don't think you could hurt him! but just wrap your hand around his dick up near the top of it and move your hand up and down (fast) until he cums.

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If me n my girlfriend are having sexual intercourse, do i stick my dick in her ear first or where? I'm not really sure! If you could HELP ME PLEASE that would be GRATEFUL ****!!!! THANX!

no first stick it in her nose then shove it down her throat! hope i helped! :D

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Ok...my name is billy...me and my girlfriend are really close...we were thinkin bout playin sex...i need help cause i dont kno what whole to put my pee pee in 1st...can u please help me?

haha well um, there's 3 holes... her pee hole, her period hole, and her butt hole. Put it in the middle hole which is her period hole. I'm sure she'll stick it in for you though. Good luck! and use protection!

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Ok so the other day I was at my boyfriends house...I mean I trusted him cause we had been dating for about a year and a 1/2 and he has never done this before. He started acting strange when we were making out. He started to grab my boobs. I didn't want him to but I didn't know how to tell him to stop w/ out being embaressed. So one thing led to the next and the next thing I know he was trying to pull off my shirt. I let him(for some reason). So then he starts kissing down me and he is about to kiss my boobs and I drew the line...ok so now im really confused cause he is probably mad at me!!! heLP!

-Megan

well that's dumb if he's mad at you! it's your body and you should be in control of it. And he shouldn't force you..ESPECIALLY if ya'll have been dating that long. Maybe he's just ready to take it to the next level and you're not?! Try talking to him about it. There is no reason he should be mad. Tell him next time he wants to try something like that then he should ask you first! Hope I helped! :)

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