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Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hott, who calls you back when you hang up on him, who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat or will stay awake just to watch you sleep*wait for the boy who kisses your forehead who wants to show you off to the world when you are in sweats, who holds your hand in front of his friends-who thinks you're just as pretty
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Location: Jersey Girls
Occupation: student
Age: 14
AIM: klassysassykat18
Member Since: April 12, 2005
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Last Update: June 22, 2006
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I am 14 and on vacation I had a relationship with a 24 year old. We keep in touch still and he thinks I'm 17. I really cared about him and his kiss was really passionate. I just needed to tell someone that

ok

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a lot of guys flirt with me and then i begin to have feelings for them. when they flirt, does this mean they are interested in me?

not necessarily... some guys just like to flirt with girls... it's just their nature... when you start to develope a crush become better friends with the guy because then he'll see the true you and more then likely you'll develope some type of relationship

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I watch pron alot. ( i know i spelt it wrong). I 'come' too. Is that normal? I am 14

more likely yes

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i like this boy for at least a while now and like i dont really like him but i get very emotional if he doesnt like talk to me.. i dont know what it is but i wanna try to not like him as much but i care about him soo much.. what should i do?

alright well... if you don't want to liek him then don't... obviously you care about him so stay very good friends with this person... if you want to get over him either try and look for soemone else or pick one thing about him that you hate and focus on it... if you told him that you liked him please let him understand that you don't anymore cause heartbreaks suck over things like that... just try and become almost liek his brother more than a crush... good luck

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I have trouble getting it up.....what do I do?

Theres always medication for that. If you really have problems talk to your doctor he will have alot better information then i could give you. Best of luck to u.

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okay well. theres this boy that i really like. but he's to popular for me.. should i keep liking the same guy that i will prob. never get or just move on?

it may sound mean but dont get your hopes up, sometimes the popular boy isnt the best. If you really like him start talkin to him and try but otherwise just move on. I Hope that helps

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Your really, really hot, what do i do?
confused boy

okay tell us? and who are you talking about...plus becs taken... yeah so hopefully it's kat... just tell us... we won't act akward...just IM one of us and tell us..but just to let u kno if its me..aka bec..im sry but im taken and loving him forever so ur out..kats free though but just let us know that u like us nd who u r..

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this one is for becca
(I don't know you that well but I know you better than kat)

I'm really sexually active and I'm only in 8th grade. Everyone has always told me that its a bad idea and I never believed them but I'm starting to. All these guys think im a total slut and I want to stop. I just can't say no.

I mean I've already had sex with 10 different guys

please help

okay well you have to learn to say no because this could turn into something you don't want it to... truthfully at this age you should have sex wiht someone who is right for you who you love... not someone just to do it with them...

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why have you totally shut me out of your life? i have always tried to be there for you but it seems as though you have found replacements for me. i no u think i dont call you or ask to hang out but its because i thougth u dont want to be friends with me anymore.!


From,
your so called friend

it would have helped if you gave us your name. first of all i am willing to work anything out with you but right now i dont know who u r i dont know if your talking to kat or me so if u could IM us it would help we both are willing to work things out with you

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well im a girl and im 16.. am i supposed to shave down there?

u can if it makes you happy

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I know this girl and she is really pissed off right now. i want to help. what do i do?

well first ask her what's wrong... and if she doesn't want to tell you... then ask her if you can help... tell her that talking might help... adn if she still doesn't want to talk about it... then let her cool off for a bit... maybe she'll want to talk later...

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hey guys, im like really confused here. Theres this guy that I Always used to flirt with. We really liked eachother and then the flirting and everything kinda slowed down. Now, im starting to talk to him online again and he just keeps telling me how much he likes me, how beautiful i am and hes just being really sweet and i think deep insde we both have a thing for eachother again. The problem is, we can totally express our feelings online, but not in school anymore, like we used to be able to. Now, its just this awkward hug every day, and a lot of blushing. I dont know what to do, because i want this to work out and i feel like im trying and he isnt. How can i help both of us to express our feelings to eachother in person and make it work?

SIncerely,
A ClUeLeSs ChIck

alright... well you should definetly tell this guy you like him... so call him... and if you don't have the courage you'll just get to know him more... and i mean this guy seems like he'll be fine around you if he doesn't like you... so just tell him cause i'm pretty sure he will... good luck...

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I have warts around my 'cat' what should i do?

you should probably tell your parents and if you don't wanna tell them then tell them u need to go to the docs cause of an ear infection or soemthing liek that... and then tell your doc and they'll help you... hope everything's okay...

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y r u such a bitch?

if that made sense i'd answer it cause neither bec nor I and dogs and we certaintly don't do everything guys say... sorry hun... nice question what is this again... oh yeha an advice column

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How much 'meat' should I stick up my 'hole'. No idea need help. 16 year old girl just starting out? How much?

don't just stick something up for the purpose of it. unless you realy like a guy then don't do it. i guess a little to start out

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I know this girl and she s really hot. but she dosent know that. we rarly talk. what do i do?

Alright, so I don't know if you're crushing on this girl or what but either way if you like her or if you just want to be friends with her maybe you should call her up. I'm sure she'll enjoy that and want to be friends with you and you can tell her that you think she's pretty. I'm sure she'll enjoy that.

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Should i try to 'squirt'. I have all the toys needed. What if i drench my bed or carpet. what should i do?

do what you want to do. if you drench your bed or carpet clean it up it shouldnt be that much.

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Should i 'play with myself"? I have tapes and memberships to sites and magizines. should. if so where?

if you realy want to. do it anywhere you feel like it.

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should i start you know doing it. i know this really hot guy and i am not sure if we sould 'do it'. He might have a lot of meat. anyway, i am 17 should i blow or go?

if you realy like the guy and have been going out with him for awhile then why not. if you just met him i think u shouldn't. also if your just doing it because you want to do it then i would say you shouldnt do it. but if it's going to mean somthing to you go right ahead. you'r 17 you should know if ur ready to do it.

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I cant seem to express my feeling clearly to this girl. I really like her but it always seems she dosent really like me. should i give up?

no don't give up. ask her out and see wut she says. if she deosnt like u then i would give up. u might think shes the one but believe me there are plenty others out there for u.

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