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my bf and i....
ok im a 17 female and hes going to be 18 male. well he ses he is a virgin and promises and swears. i am a virgin. weve been together for almost 11 months. and oh my gosh i want him so bad...physically. we havent done anything sexual except like feeling eachother but over clothes like he will squeeze or touch my boobs my butt or my front area. ive touched everything on him except his front area. cause he gets tickelish when i put my hands down there. and hes scared that ill give him a boner or something cause were never like completely alone. which sucks! cause i really want to have sex already i think im ready to give myself to him! in everyway. im super comfortable with him. but like i just said were never like completely alone. well like he will grab me in places or touch me then when i go back to do it to his private area. he gets all giggly and shy and kinda pushes me away saying hes tickelish. well i mean i understand that cause so am i. but what do i do to get us more into the physical stuff. and im pretty sure hes a virgin i dont think hes lying to me. cause little things he does or says sounds so inexperienced. like he grabbed my boobs and asked why they felt like that and he didnt know boobs felt like that. idk i cant explain it. but i can just tell. well anyways how can i get us both way more super comfortable touching/rubbing/grabbing eachother in areas?! im searching for an apartment/house for us to move into once we get of age and first he told me why are you looking at 2 bedroom houses and now hes telling me too. idk if thats his way of saying just for more room or if he wants to have seperate rooms. i dont understand what can i do to make our relationship more interesting and fun with us getting more comfortable with eachothers bodies. and living together..we have spent the night together before and slept in the same bed if that helps anything but my babybrother was sleeping in the middle of us then on the side of one. and he always gives him more attention then he does to me whenever he is around. so someone please help me!
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From what you say,I'm sure he is a Virgin 2. And if you are ready to give yourself to him then no one should come in your way. You can not always never be alone so I suggest you start mentally preparing yourself for that day.
And you must ask him straightout : 'I want to touch you, let me touch you'. Once you've done it once or twice and get the basics like how to pleasure him the way he wants to be pleasured.
Just ask him straightout, don't beat around the bush.
Also ask him if he wants more space in the house you're looking for.Thats the simplest way. Just say, " so baby, do you prefer a 3 bedroom, I am sure i'll be able to find one you like" or something like that.
And maybe he doesn't want to act sexual around your brother, I would have done it to, just to not arouse curiousity from your brother or akwardness between you 2.
Say whatever is troubling you! Talking does more good than keeping it all inside.
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